Barry Manilow has done more than shared his expertise as a musician extraordinaire. Thanks to a mutual appreciation of Barry many lasting friendships have forged and continue for years. Not just an acquaintance; but the sort of friend you can laugh and cry with, share your secrets and know they’ll be kept, the one who’s in for the long haul. One such friend is Janet in France. She’s a quiet, intelligent lady, with a dry sense of British humor. She cuts to the chase, wouldn’t hurt a soul, won’t dish the dirt, and tells it like it is. My kids think of her as part of the family.
We met after a show in Vegas at Tempo in the Las Vegas Hilton about three years ago. She’s been through the ups, downs and major changes in my life (I owe her many listening hours). She introduced me to Barry’s beautiful song “Sandra” which brought me to tearful moments but helped my decision in what needed to be done. She is a rare breed and I cherish the gift of her trusted friendship.
Last weekend she gathered with friends for their own annual ‘Barry convention’ in France. What follows is description of a wonderful weekend.
Barry thank you for the people you’ve brought into our lives…
Mini-Convention Number 3
(or- Making Friends Thanks to Barry Manilow)
When one is no longer in the first flush of youth (!) it is not easy to make new friends. People already have their circle of friends and acquaintances, and don’t feel the same need to acquire new ones as they did when they were young and starting out in life.
This has sometimes bothered me. I love the friends I have and would not be without them but I also love meeting new people and developing new friendships. Whatever your age, life can’t just stand still. I want to carry on having different experiences, seeing other countries and making new friends. I didn’t realize that I would obtain exactly that when I joined the BMIFC four years ago and made the first of many visits to Las Vegas!
Barry Manilow’s music has been present in my life since Mandy but, for various reasons, I was never a fan club member and didn’t go to shows.
As I said, all that changed 4 years ago. As did my life. I am in contact with people all over the world, be it in the USA, the UK, Australia, Brazil, Germany. A number of these contacts have developed into deep and lasting friendships. What started out with an exchange of emails a couple of times a month has turned into meetings, (whenever we can) and weekly phone calls.
The great majority of Barry’s fans are kind, generous, passionate, INTERESTING human beings. Like he is!
Over here in France, Barry is not generally well-known. He has fans just as he does everywhere, but there are not a lot of us. When I joined the Barrynet, I posted a message, asking fans in France to get in touch. Several did, and 2 in particular have become close friends. These are people I would never have met if it weren’t for our shared admiration and passion for Mr. Manilow and his music.
Three years ago we met for the first time. At Laurence’s house on the west coast of France. We called it our mini-convention! We had a wonderful weekend, listening to Barry’s music, watching videos and DVDs, swapping stories, getting to really know each other. Last year, we met at Katherina’s house in south-eastern France and this year it was my turn to be hostess.
Last weekend we held mini-convention number 3 at my house in Alsace, in the north- east. It’s a special time for all of us. Not only because we have so much fun together, but because it’s so nice to be able to listen to Barry’s music with other people who love it! I have no-one among my friends here that I can do that with. The only problem was that a weekend is short. We packed in as much as we could. We selected CDS to listen to in the car as we travelled the Route du Vin (the Wine Road!!) Alsace is famed for its white wine!!Barry’s music accompanied us as we drove from one picturesque village to another, stopping off to sample the local speciality. !!

A wine cellar in the village of Blienschwiller!!
The town of Ribeauvillé

The Gingerbread House!
We had chosen CDs containing many of the wonderful songs Barry has recorded but which he rarely sings live . If only he would!!(Barry if by any wild chance you read this, please take note!!)
The day became known as “Oh God I love this one day”. As in: opening notes of Don’t Fall In Love With Me->Laurence, with a groan “Oh God I love this one” opening notes of Marry Me a Little- Katherina with a groan->Oh God I love this one” ,opening notes of … well you get the general idea.
We listen to Even Now in Spanish ( Hasta Hoy – a duet with Valerie Lynch)) We adore it. But do we like it as much? more than? Barry’s solo version in English?
We listen to two different recordings of Somewhere in the Night. The arrangement is not exactly the same. There are some piano chords in one which are not in the other. I love those piano chords. ( Oh God…)
We sing along to Who’s Been Sleeping in My Bed? Cars overtaking us see these three crazy middle-aged women singing and swaying but do we care??
Back home, with a bottle of wine opened, I show them pictures of the show at Paris as they have yet to see it. We decide that Barry should definitely sing more than one song in his tux! Such a shame to go to all that trouble and to look so drop dead gorgeous for only one song!!!.

Our vote goes to Sweet Heaven (three birds with one stone: a beautiful, beautiful song, one he hasn’t sung live in a while AND the tux!)
Talking about Sweet Heaven naturally leads us to put on Close-Up!! My DVD practically starts by itself at I’m Your Man! We sing and sway again.
Unfortunately Kat has to leave us on Sunday afternoon. Laurence and I have supper and then go through my DVDs and videos to find something she hasn’t already seen. We hit on a videotape of the A&E request show broadcast in 1996. Someone in the US sent me this and I am ashamed to say I can’t remember who! If you read this, whoever you are, accept once again my grateful thanks.
The show is wonderful. Barry looks great, His voice is spectacular, he is funny and sometimes touching, interacting with the callers and with the audience. Who spend a lot of their time on their feet.
It’s now 2010 and nothing has changed! Except that he is even better today!
Kat called our weekend “a breath of fresh air” and said she would be able to face work in a more positive spirit. Which is exactly how I feel after seeing Barry in Vegas!
Thanks for coming ladies. And thanks Barry for bringing them and so many others, into my life.
Janet.( Helen, see you at the end of August!!!)